Posted by Chebby
on September 24, 2008 at 08:26:53:
It did not all start out like this. We were in college and we were always hanging out and sharing things in common. He used to spend on me but not much, but i understood cos he's not got a job yet. That was like 2 years ago, but now we are all graduates and i found myself working in a reputable firm that pays me a nice salary plus allowance. Enough to supply for all my need, but he has not got a job yet and I've been the one doing all the mini and mega spendings. We go to the movies, i buy the ticket, we do lunch, i pay for our meals, and i just rented an apartment that i wholly paid for and he's just decided to squat with me. He doesn't seem to be eager to get any job, but just interested in getting quick money which he probably spends on booze. Is it normal for a girl like me to still have anything to do with a loser like him. We still have sex though which is good and he's well cultured, but he's the lazy one and I'm the hardworking one. He doesn't even know how to do chores properly. We've come a long way and I'm 6 years younger than him, is it right for me to continue in this relationship since he doesn't seem disposed to changing.
Posted by Kayode on September 25, 2008 at 04:11:29:
In Reply to: What does a working girl do when her boyfriend depends financially on her posted by
Chebby on September 24, 2008 at 08:26:53:
Well, that is a very delicate issue. It all depends on the level of love and understanding between you. My view is, sit him down and ask him his plan for your future together. At least he should have a plan in his mind. I believe if you both iron the issue out patiently then you'll know what to do.
Posted by Mo' thug
on September 30, 2008 at 08:54:15:
In Reply to: What does a working girl do when her boyfriend depends financially on her posted by
Chebby on September 24, 2008 at 08:26:53:
You must be madly in love with this dude, if not, u should have dumped him for someone else. There isn't need posting such issues. Wisen up girl.
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